I talk to my partner often about my traumatic journey to have my last son. I do not recall some things and that was a lot of the reason he always attended. It’s a system you need witnesses for.
I was saying to an obstetrician that my baby wasn’t moving well and I had a lot of concerns. I was given a long talk from him about babies being born early and that they wouldn’t be smart.
At this point in time I realise this is pretty much medical gaslighting. I have a son born 34 weeks that is top 2% in napland testing here in Australia.
My son was born with a congenital phenomena that existed long before delivery and when I had raised concerns.
Why the gaslighting? Give me facts and figures? Why try to scare me? Why extinguish my voice when it turned out to be correct?